Kidfree Reading

 

The concept of choosing not to have children continues to fascinate both the childed and unchilded. Even in this day and age of “anything goes” lifestyles, I often get nervous laughs when I tell  folks I’m writing a book called Kidfree & Lovin’ It. But these are soon followed by their mention of friends and/or relatives who have chosen not to have kids, and questions about the group as a whole.

Are there any ‘truisms’ about non-parents?” “Do they prefer pets to kids?” “What are their reasons for not wanting children?” “Are they happier?” These questions are asked and answered in my Kidfree Survey of 3,800 unchilded adults.

Since 1 in 5 people today will not have kids, everyone knows a “non-parent,” even if they don’t understand them. Since choosing not to parent is a growing trend in the U.S., Canada, Australia, Europe and Asia, there is increased media exposure on us lately.

The childfree phenomenon is currently on the cusp of novel enough to pique society’s interest and widespread enough to warrant examination. Here are some articles and books that may interest you whether you are a confirmed childfree or on the fence...


- Childfree Books -


40 Reasons Not to

Have Children (2009)

A mother of two gives her pithy reasons to not have children, by Corinne Maier,

Blindsided by a Diaper

by Dana Bedford Hilmer,(2007). Over 30 Men and Women Reveal How Parenthood Changes a Relationship.

Pride and Joy: The lives and passions of women without children (2007) Interviews of 25 women who have chosen not to have children, by Terri Casey

I Hate Other People’s Kids by Adrianne Frost (2006).

A wry look at why kids today are so nasty.

Baby Not On Board:

A Celebration of Life Without Kids (2005)

by Jennifer L. Shawne. Humorous look at the wonderful world of “unparenting.”

The Childless Revolution: What it means to be childless today (2001)

by Madelyn Cain. Cain divides childless women into three subsets and explores their issues.

Cheerfully Childless:

The Humor Book for Those Who Hesitate to Procreate by Ellen Metter (2001). Cartoon-filled humor book for those who are leaning against parenthood.

The Baby Boon: How Family-Friendly America Cheats the Childless by Elinor Burkett (2000). How the government and workplaces cheat the childless by giving parents special treatment.

Families of Two

Interviews with happily married couples who have no children by choice, by Laura Carroll (2000)

The Chosen Lives of Childfree Men  (1999) by Patricia W. Lunneborg.

Explores men’s motives for -and their experiences of- remaining childless.

Childfree After Infertility: Moving from Childless-ness to a Joyous Life 

by Heather Wardell (1999). Stories of how the formerly infertile have created happy childfree lives.

  1. -- Kidfree Articles & Essays -

“Childfree by Choice” Hanem.com, Egypt’s online magazine for women, Jan. 11, 2012

“Puppy Love (for the child-free)” by Mansi Choksi & Priya M. Menon, The Times of India, Dec. 25, 2011, Times News Network

“7 Billion Means You Can Stop Asking When I’m Having a Baby” by Ashley Lauren Samsa, Huffington Post Women, Nov. 3, 2011

“Childless by Choice” by Shelly Horton, Essential Baby, Oct. 9, 2011

“Childfree By Choice: I Don’t Want Kids and I’m in Good Company” by Hannah Brooks Olsen, Blisstree, Sept. 29, 2011, http://blisstree.com/live/childfree-by-choice-i-dont-want-kids-and-im-in-good-company-434/

“How to Explain Why You’ve Chosen Not to Have Children” by Scott Meyer, Basic Instructions, July 26, 2011, http://basicinstructions.net/

“Why having a baby is not the pinnacle of a woman’s life” by Clem Bastow, The Sydney Morning Herald, June 21, 2011, smh.com.au

“It’s Time to Stop Calling Career Women Without Children ‘Delayers” by Melanie Notkin, Huffpost Women, June 13, 2011, TheHuffingtonPost.com

“The No-Baby Boom” by Brian Frazer, Details.com, April 2011, Conde Nast Digital

“20 Something & Sterilized” by Laura Carroll, Technorati, February 2, 2011

“Choosing to Be Childfree: Not Simple For Men” posted by Sierra on “Strollerderby” blog, Babble, Jan. 14, 2011

“2010: The year childfree went mainstream (thanks, Oprah!)” by Lisa Hymas, Grist Magazine, Inc., December 30, 2010

“Passengers Push for Child-Free Flights” by Douglas Quenqua, New York Times, November 12, 2010

“Does Having Kids Make You Old?” by Lori Bradley, Editor, Married No Kids, (Bella Online), October 21, 2010

“The Real Reason More Women Are Childless” by Amanda Marcotte, Slate, (Washington Post), July 12, 2010

“Why Non-Parents are Happier Than Parents” by Bonnie Erbe, U.S. News & World Report, July 9, 2010

“US childlessness is up, but racial gaps narrowing” by Hope Yen, Associated Press, Yahoo News, June 25, 2010

“Child-free and lovin’ it” by Sue Conley, Herald.ie, (Ireland), May 25, 2010

“Childfree social groups springing up as people opt not to have children” by Felicity Williams, Herald Sun, Australia, May 20, 2010

“In my shoes: Child free, and content, by choice” by Sundra Hominik, Richmond Times Dispatch, May 16, 2010

“When man and wife don’t want to become Mom and Dad, why can’t others just accept it?” by Malena Lott, OKGazette.com, April 7, 2010

“Say it loud: I’m childfree and I’m proud” by Lisa Hymas, Grist Magazine, Inc., March 30, 2010

“Meet the Panks: professional aunts with no kids who just want to have fun” by Anna Carey, Irish Independent, March 15, 2010

“Married, Without Children” by Alexandra Paul,The Huffington Post, Feb. 17, 2010

“The Referendum” by Tim Kreider,The New York Times, Sept. 17, 2009

“Our Biggest Decision: To Parent or Not to Parent” by Kaye Walters, Women Of, Jan. 2009

“When Did ‘Married Without Children’ Become Gauche?” by Rachel Shukert, The Daily Beast, Nov. 15, 2008

“Childfree Citizens!” by Richa Prakash, TNN, The Times of India, Sept. 7, 2008

“More Women Than Ever Are Childless, Census Finds” by Katie Zezima, New York Times, Aug. 18, 2008

“When to Tell People You’re Child Free” by Kim Kenney, Bella Online, Aug. 9 2008

“True or False: Having Kids Makes You Happy” by Loraine Ali, Newsweek, July 7-14 2008

“Love Your Lifestyle: Why the Childfree Choose Not to Parentby Kaye Walters, June 2008

“Want to be happy? Don’t have kids” by Adam Bennett, Brisbane Times, May 8, 2008

“Childless Families on the Rise” by Stan Grewal, Toronto Star, Sept. 13, 2007

“To Be Happy in Marriage, Baby Carriage Not Required” by Donna St. George, Washington Post, July 2007

“Stop Setting Alarms on My Biological Clock” by Carrie Freeman, Newsweek, July 2007

“Poll: Fewer People See Kids as Key to a Good Marriage” by David Crary, Associated Press, Reprinted from Santa Barbara News Press, July 1, 2007

Ain't This America. . .The Kid Trap” From Capitol Hill Blue, By Betsy Hart, June 16, 2006, (Her response to article above “Does Fatherhood Make You Happy?”)

“Does Fatherhood Make You Happy?” by Daniel Gilbert, in Time Magazine, June 11, 2006

“Cost of Raising a Child Calculator: Find out how much you’re likely to spend raising a child” (from the Baby Center LLC)

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