Kidfree Reading
Kidfree Reading
The concept of choosing not to have children continues to fascinate both the childed and unchilded. Even in this day and age of “anything goes” lifestyles, I often get nervous laughs when I tell folks I’m writing a book called Kidfree & Lovin’ It. But these are soon followed by their mention of friends and/or relatives who have chosen not to have kids, and questions about the group as a whole.
Are there any ‘truisms’ about non-parents?” “Do they prefer pets to kids?” “What are their reasons for not wanting children?” “Are they happier?” These questions are asked and answered in my Kidfree Survey of 3,800 unchilded adults.
Since 1 in 5 people today will not have kids, everyone knows a “non-parent,” even if they don’t understand them. Since choosing not to parent is a growing trend in the U.S., Canada, Australia, Europe and Asia, there is increased media exposure on us lately.
The childfree phenomenon is currently on the cusp of novel enough to pique society’s interest and widespread enough to warrant examination. Here are some articles and books that may interest you whether you are a confirmed childfree or on the fence...
- Childfree Books -
40 Reasons Not to
Have Children (2009)
A mother of two gives her pithy reasons to not have children, by Corinne Maier,
Blindsided by a Diaper
by Dana Bedford Hilmer,(2007). Over 30 Men and Women Reveal How Parenthood Changes a Relationship.
Pride and Joy: The lives and passions of women without children (2007) Interviews of 25 women who have chosen not to have children, by Terri Casey
I Hate Other People’s Kids by Adrianne Frost (2006).
A wry look at why kids today are so nasty.
Baby Not On Board:
A Celebration of Life Without Kids (2005)
by Jennifer L. Shawne. Humorous look at the wonderful world of “unparenting.”
The Childless Revolution: What it means to be childless today (2001)
by Madelyn Cain. Cain divides childless women into three subsets and explores their issues.
Cheerfully Childless:
The Humor Book for Those Who Hesitate to Procreate by Ellen Metter (2001). Cartoon-filled humor book for those who are leaning against parenthood.
The Baby Boon: How Family-Friendly America Cheats the Childless by Elinor Burkett (2000). How the government and workplaces cheat the childless by giving parents special treatment.
Families of Two
Interviews with happily married couples who have no children by choice, by Laura Carroll (2000)
The Chosen Lives of Childfree Men (1999) by Patricia W. Lunneborg.
Explores men’s motives for -and their experiences of- remaining childless.
Childfree After Infertility: Moving from Childless-ness to a Joyous Life
by Heather Wardell (1999). Stories of how the formerly infertile have created happy childfree lives.
-- Kidfree Articles & Essays -
“Childfree by Choice” Hanem.com, Egypt’s online magazine for women, Jan. 11, 2012
“Childless by Choice” by Shelly Horton, Essential Baby, Oct. 9, 2011
“The No-Baby Boom” by Brian Frazer, Details.com, April 2011, Conde Nast Digital
“20 Something & Sterilized” by Laura Carroll, Technorati, February 2, 2011
“Passengers Push for Child-Free Flights” by Douglas Quenqua, New York Times, November 12, 2010
“Why Non-Parents are Happier Than Parents” by Bonnie Erbe, U.S. News & World Report, July 9, 2010
“Child-free and lovin’ it” by Sue Conley, Herald.ie, (Ireland), May 25, 2010
“Say it loud: I’m childfree and I’m proud” by Lisa Hymas, Grist Magazine, Inc., March 30, 2010
“Married, Without Children” by Alexandra Paul,The Huffington Post, Feb. 17, 2010
“The Referendum” by Tim Kreider,The New York Times, Sept. 17, 2009
“Our Biggest Decision: To Parent or Not to Parent” by Kaye Walters, Women Of, Jan. 2009
“Childfree Citizens!” by Richa Prakash, TNN, The Times of India, Sept. 7, 2008
“More Women Than Ever Are Childless, Census Finds” by Katie Zezima, New York Times, Aug. 18, 2008
“When to Tell People You’re Child Free” by Kim Kenney, Bella Online, Aug. 9 2008
“True or False: Having Kids Makes You Happy” by Loraine Ali, Newsweek, July 7-14 2008
“Love Your Lifestyle: Why the Childfree Choose Not to Parent” by Kaye Walters, June 2008
“Want to be happy? Don’t have kids” by Adam Bennett, Brisbane Times, May 8, 2008
“Childless Families on the Rise” by Stan Grewal, Toronto Star, Sept. 13, 2007
“Stop Setting Alarms on My Biological Clock” by Carrie Freeman, Newsweek, July 2007
“Poll: Fewer People See Kids as Key to a Good Marriage” by David Crary, Associated Press, Reprinted from Santa Barbara News Press, July 1, 2007
“Does Fatherhood Make You Happy?” by Daniel Gilbert, in Time Magazine, June 11, 2006
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